what was happen`

I dunno how i should be..but i just try to do the thing you want.

i know i'm not a perfect girl, that i admit .

what i gonna be,i try my best to do it.

I dunno where you,i'm worry .

Someone ask me what you worry still?

very sorry , i cant dont care with it,cause you my man.

however , i love you still.

When i needed, where you?
i miss you ♥

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dear ~

常常我們認為會跟一個人吵架一定是跟他感情不好，其實不然，


最容易跟家人吵架，最常跟情人吵架，最會跟好朋友吵架。

想想，原來最常跟我們有爭執的人竟然都是跟我們最親密的人，

而能夠跟我們發生爭執的人也對我們有一定的瞭解，

所以有人常說『吵架』也是一種溝通，而願意跟你吵架的人，

才是真正想瞭解你的人。







有時候我們與人發生爭執時會說『算了』，或者『不說了』，

這兩句話其實都是殺傷力很強的話，

代表著你不想把你的想法跟他說，不想讓對方瞭解你，

也代表你們的感情會停留在原地。

有時兩個人爭執，會忽然聽到一句話『我是為你好』；

在感情的世界裡，每個人都很自私，有人常會對你說『我是為你好』，

這其實是很不負責任的說法，因為我們會把自己的觀念加諸在別人身上，

為他人決定一些事，但是再想想，對對方來說，自己的觀點真的好嗎？

你為他決定了事情，但是要負責的人卻是他，這是很不公平的，

唯有他自己才能決定什麼是對自己最好，

若是錯誤的決定也才不會有埋怨，也才能對自己負責。

『通常願意留下來跟你爭吵的人，才是真正愛你的人。』







之前聽到陶子在節目中說了一句話'每個人天生就是不一樣'

這句話讓我領悟了很多事.............

因為不一樣~自然而然每個人所看的所想的也不會相同

不要怪別人不夠懂你

~換個立場~

其實我們也不敢說自己有多了解他人

'無聲'是一種無形的、最遠的距離

若能從吵架中表達出自己的想法

總比大家把話悶在心裡都不說出來的好

但千萬要避免在衝動時說出傷害對方的言語

有些話~一旦說出口~就很難收回了







聊天→是增進感情.....



約會→是多一點共同的回憶....



吵架→是多認識對方....並且學會和好及相處....



承諾→是證明這段感情要經得起考驗....　



努力→是代表妳真的對這份情很在乎....



感動→是因為被愛....一點一滴滑過心坎裡....！！！



付出→是因為愛不知怎麼給....不能不求回報..但也不苛求！



真心→是因為真愛不容易來臨,一但來,就該真誠地去握！！



痛苦→是絕對在乎的表現...沒有是很不尋常...有了又很苦！



自私→難免嘛 ~ 不然怎麼叫「最愛」！！！



珍惜→ㄟ...是因為怕失去....所以呵護著..視之為奇遇！



冷淡→是因為正在沉澱...可是不要沉過了頭嘍！！



思念→是因為心裡常常有著妳....這就是愛的魔力！！！



牽掛→是因為很愛很愛著....心跟著心愛的人跑！！



溫柔→是要讓愛....表達的甜美....永難忘懷！！



三八→是愛情裡的小孩子氣的表現....很甜喔～～！



撒嬌→是想要多一點呵護及在乎 ~~



打情罵俏→讓生活過的甜蜜又有趣！！



重視→是絕對的愛情保障....沒有重視就沒有愛情！！



在乎→是為了要愛妳...心有所屬ㄇㄟ～～！



差別待遇→是要讓妳知道妳最重要......



信任→是感情維持最重要的ㄋ?...要一起努力做唷～！



多來往→是為了讓感情更穩定....也可以避免不必要的距離！



分享→是要讓對方多了解彼此.....～～！

爱呢？

心里那不舒服的感觉让我无法入睡，
所谓的安全感，完全失去了。
能做的，我都会试着去做，
爱，不简单。
我选择了爱，就该对爱负起责任。
希望你也是。
不管多困难，我都愿意去尝试。
我保证的我会做，青但请我点时间，我需要时间。
一连再的发生事情，到后来我得到都是责备。
而不是关心。在乎的是什么？我不懂。

彤··加油吧··

会没事的··

相信自己··因为··只有你自己知道··

我抗拒的那感觉··我一定会赢··

这次··我不会认输··

我会忍声吞下··

就算再难吃··我还是吃了··

少了你在我身边··是真的少了份力量··

但我无话可说···

就自己忍痛吧··我总要面对··那可怕的东西··

是迟或早罢了··希望这次··我能打败病魔··就没下次了··

我真的不喜欢···side effect!


加油···

那个讨厌的东西，又在来了。

看着那一大堆讨厌的东西，好累。

很害怕又有什么幸苦的后果？

总就还得照做。

在我再次的幸苦，再次的无助。

不懂你还不会不会在我傍边陪着我。

安慰我，关心我

这下，我沉默了。

那些讨厌的东西让我没力气去看了。

你可以陪着我吗？

放心不勉强你·

你放心，你也不会懂。

晕眩带走了我，但麻醉不了我的心。

真希望，它们可以让我好好睡一觉。

起来后一切都好了。

18.5.2010

The blog owner "

XiioTong

It's ready to go out , Its time to school.

A week holiday..FINISHED!!!
Finally my stress gone. assignment was pass up and done!

When wake in the early morning [Its going 6 a.m]

feel damn tired , have no enough sleep for me.

This few night , i had lost sleep>.<

I'm really tired , so tired but my spirit !

Haiz..lying on the bed. Waiting for SLEEP!

So in the afternoon i have take a small nap..

damn tired . after nap feel better a lot.

Have open my computer , upload the picture to my document .

the picture that i had take with my dear ~

In the car on the way go home. 

The back of my guy..

Like his hair colour so much, Its nice really..^ ^ 

and the new hair style..its chubby..

However,its nice.

I'm going to dye my hair soon..

But still consider with what colour i need to choose.

Like it..

Enough..…＾＾time to go home..

Today was my guy fetch me back..

what the cool style he has when drove.

Now.the time for sleep..

tonight i must get sleep tight please..

Good night My guy and all of my reader.

 

Love you ❤

!!!

Suddenly, my mood all gone..

log in the password if you want read this article ..

    the girl name

B zai

Today i had accompany my brother went to hospital.

Purpose: fetched my sis-in law with B Zai came back.

Then I became the driver . Because,my Brother wanted to carry his's B zai .

Then impossible ask my sis- in law drove .So that why i became Driver.

Bzai damn cute.But when talked to him,really make us contradiction.

Cause , Elderly said: Pantang to said the baby anything good,its will became opposite.

Cute=No cute

Beauty=Very ugly 

Clever=Idiot 

ha..damn contradiction like that.

have to show off some picture let my reader to take a look.

what my the cutie look .

^ ^ ..

B zai really so small..

so chubby .

When 1st time carry B zai.

Brother with B zai

B zai with His's dad!

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About mine !!!

My holidays was gone day by day.

my assignment has no done yet!

when can i done it.

headache with it..confuse ><

Can i settle it as fast as.If not really feel So uncomfortable .

Today totally have less contact with my dear.

hm.Miss you ne.

So late d..1-07 a.m now .

Its time for sleep.

So tired . but wont so sleepy .

hope i wont lost sleep!!!

To all my reader. Sleep Tight o .

Night.

Muackz..

[TH3 3ND]

7.5.2010

Just now i had went to hospital ..to saw my baby nephew d..

its so chubby?

only 2.8 kg his have ~

^^

Thank for dear fetch me there..

but when we back..

damn stuck !

My dear..gonna crazy with that..

but i had saw some ..so Cutie action..

haa..its funny la.. dear..

but at last..i also need drive alone back my home..

damn hungry and tired..

today dunno what was happen !

Get gastric twice..

have a time i din't have it d..

now again!still twice..

>.

backing my house when drove..again !!!

Wuuu! T.T

please far away from me..

 gonna start my busy life..in my HOLIDAYS!!!!

really damn shit..

from now on!

i have a lot of thing need to done!

1st for my assignment ..

english assignment , marketing assignment , management assignment..

after holiday ..addition 1 more account ><

2nd for keeping room..i need it be tidy..

before exam..have no time to keep it..

3rd for need do treatment for my hair..

long time i dint do it..my hair so CHAM!!

4th..i gonna take my dinner now,damn hungry..

stop here 1st..

bye all..

6.5.2010！

Sudden i felt whim to wrote my blog..

my life ..day by day passed ..

Seen like so fast..my college life almost go in the third month .

i had pass through my 1st test..

and the assignment was came together for few subject ..

3 assignment ..i need to done it..

and 1 more will start after holiday ..

next week is my holiday ..break for 1 week..

Hoho..Hey ..I need done my assignment in the time..

Today have a Good News ..

It was add a new members in Ng 's family..

My sis in law ..was became Mother..

Kor ..became Daddy..

My daddy became ..Ah Gong..

My Mummy ..became Ah Ma..

And me..Become Gu Gu..Aunty jor..

Haiz..its good or bad?

Seen like old d..

haa..however ..that both of them was safety ..

I have a baby boy nephew ..

Hm..I can't directly went hospital to visit baby boy..

hm..its fine..tomorrow i'll be there..

You wait me..Baby boy^^

Just finished our class..

I went to take my dinner as Tomyam Mee.

With my classmate..and also My guy..

 having a damn spicy mee..but tasty ..

haa..so contradiction..

 spicy ..somemore ate ..still want talk so much..

Just now ..went home ..Ting was call my skype..

Miss you so much my girl..

Incidentally，told you about the good news there..

Hoho..when you wanna born a baby too??

i waiting be Gan Ma Ma..hehee..

Sure baby so beauty ..if you born..

cause have a handsome daddy and beauty mummy..

^^..

The picture..Capture in webcam in front of ting..

still need laugh by her..said i act chubby..gaaa..

i'm normally wont be that la..

dunno who act cute at there 1st..

haaa..

Tomorrow having 11 a.m class..

So to all my reader..

Gonna said bye at here d..

i miss my bed now..

Going meeting with Mr.Chew d..

haa..SO..Tata..

Will stop here..

Everyone good night o..

My dear..night ..sleep tight ya..

Muackz..Love you..❤

[The 3nd]